[quote=Mattncatt]Our 14 year old has asked us some questions like that - Matt told him what goes on between 2 adults is private. We'll answer any questions he has and he can always come to us but we also want to teach him the meaning of intimacy.

What a great answer.

My oldest just turned 10, a girl. I totally agree it was SO much easier when they were little. So far we have just given her the info she needs...about the changes in her body. She isn't much of a girly-girl so she has no interest in boys at this point. When she does, we'll continue to fill her in!!