You didn't mention, does your son and his family live in your home- or are they on their own?
Being 17 and married with a new baby can't be easy- (Being 32 and married with a new baby is hard too!)


I think your idea of giving like the first Christmas is really neat! But if he is living on his own with his wife and baby, maybe you can give them things they could use as a family? Furniture for their apartment, a shopping trip to Costco to fill their freezer, etc.

Once I got married, my mom stopped giving me the personal things like socks and underwear. She started giving my husband and I gifts for OUR household and family. She still gives us each a personal gift, like an ornament with our names on it, etc.