stellatj, thank you for your very open and honest answer. I went to P-flag and read the section..for parents, questions you may have ? It did say it can be a shock and it needs time to fit in. I just would never ever guess in a million years he was gay and I think most parents of sons at one point in their lives wonder, is he gay ? Can I tell ? My son does not have a lisp , does not walk differently, he never ever talked to another boy on the phone or walked home from school with him. I am not trying to be funny please do Not feel I am making fun it is just I mean what can you say ? & then he slept with a female within days of sleeping with this male ? I would think he would be repulsed by a women if he was indeed gay. He would also, as a young boy, talk about getting married and having children one day.

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