What I would do is first take a deep breath and ask yourself... Am I ready to hear "yes I am" or "no I am not". After you can answer that question I would go to him and ask. You obviously have a very open relationship with him that I think if you asked he would tell you.

If you find out he is you need to educate yourself. Find out what he is going through and what he needs. You have to remember right now this is not about you and I know you hurt also. But this belongs to him not that it does not affect you but it is his.

Remember when that little boy was born what did you say before you had him.... I hope he is a healthy child. Remember that he is the healthy child you wanted and with your relationship with him should not change. By you going to him this may help him because then he will not have to "come out" by himself. He will know that you don't care either way. He is still your little boy.

Again maybe this is a phase..In college it is very acceptable to be Bi. It is the thing to be with young adults. So sit back relax and have a talk with your healthy baby boy.
I know this has to be hard and this will be a trying experience but please read my quote it says everything.

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