Just love your son for who he is and try to be as supportive as possible. There are many men who are gay who have wives and have been married for years ith children but had to suppress their sexuality because of societal bias and discrimination. I have known gay men who are effeminate and just as many who are the most masculine and macho men that I know-don't believe the stereotypes that are portrayed in the media. I know gay men who served proudly and heroically in the military, and there are plenty of gay men and women who serve our country proudly now. There are many family support groups like PFLAG that may be helpful to you. Good luck with this and just remember how much you love your son.

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Jocelyn



My babies are the joys of my life and keep me young:
The twins,Tatiana Gabrielle and William Joseph , 1/29/97, and baby boy, Jared Lawrence, 8/27/02.