thank you for your answer.
i have looked over the laws of homeschooling for my state,asn it is pretty fuzzy.ther ear eonly 2 ways 2 not have your kids in public school/
having a private tutor qualified by the state or
a church school

so now i have to "make"a church school(kinda funny for definition: congregation of people,so a family can be church....)

I might have more questions down the line for you.

I like the way of the child leading teh learning.that would be more fun ,than to impose a lesson that they would be bored with.
do you have a set hours for them to study?
my dd can't stand math ,but I still want her to learn the basic math..
but stupid question of the day.
how do they graduate?(understnd me,I have graduated in France ,and the school system over there is totaly different)