DH and I spoiled each other rotten at Christmas but it was stressful trying to get the perfect surprises for him. He's hard to shop for and makes no secret if he doesnt like something.
Soooo... I just ask him. LOL AND we cut way back on what we get each other. Just a couple small things and then maybe one big thing each or, such as this year, one big thing for both of us. We can breathe a lot easier.
I always thought I'd be miserable if i didnt have a ton of gifts to open but actually.... it's nice. Last year, DH told me to go buy some new clothes. I had so much fun trying everything on Xmas day. And so much fun knowing we didnt go overboard with spending.

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