I guess I'm the odd man (lady) out here. I get along great with all my in laws. I speak to my dh's stepmom almost daily and his mom weekly. I get along with both his dad and stepdad. The same went for my ex's family until the divorce and I distanced myself from them because it was for the best. I still can talk to them if need be just not close anymore. I feel very lucky to be able to have a great relationship with all the inlaws!