We did not get along at first. I met DH in college and MIL was NOT ready to let go. DH is 2nd of 4 kids and the one they had the least problems with growing up. Also DHs younger sister and older brothers wife joined with MIL to trash me. FIL was always nice and accepting. Finally I'd had enough and basically told them all DH & I (actually BF at the time) will be BF & I no matter what. I'm not leaving or going anywhere. We can come around or not...doesn't matter to me. It took a while and some work on all our parts, but now I wouldn't trade any of them for the world. We dated 4 years and have been married 17 and I love them all. We all get along great. I feel lucky we got it worked out.

Lisa

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