We usually go to my Brother in Laws(sisters hubby) Mothers house. She makes a bunch of great Mexican food and we exchange gifts then on the way home we look at lights. After we get the kids to bed hubby and I finsih any wrapping or assembling then watch a movie and he goes to bed(while I wait up to put presents out). This year we are having Christmas Eve at my Mothers since sis and her hubby are in middle of divorcing. Mom used to go to inlaws also. So we are starting a new tradition this year after 20 years.