Originally Posted by kellibelle

You know, its so comforting to hear I'm not alone! My mother has never, ever once sent us a card, present or even made a phone call on birthdays or Christmas. And again, its certainly not the money. She's bought my step-brothers new Harley Davidson motorcycles, hunting equiptment, etc. But never once has she made an effort in our direction. I don't mind for myself or my husband, but its hard to explain to my 15 yr old daughter why grandmom doesn't care. Any communication she has with her is because we call her. My dh and friends say to give up and not call her at all, but somehow I feel I wouldn't be setting the right example for my daughter if I did that. It's a tough one, especially since my inlaws are gone and there are no aunts or uncles. Maybe someday I will understand.

But our season will be bright and joyful...Merry Chirstmas everyone!