My first thought is he cheating on you? I don't want to be blunt and hurt your feelings..but any guy or gal does have time for a affair..It doesn't take any money ..It could happen while he is at work or while your in school. You can get past anything you want too as long as you two love each other and are willing to make things work


Do you have Caller Id? check it when he is not around and see if you notice any calls during the day..see if you notice a pattern of incoming calls.. There is a program out there on web called "Caller Id Spoofing"--police and detectives used to make appear someone else is calling--This program is used easily by cheaters they call the number and can punch any name & number they wish too to have appear on the caller Id.. If you have the slightest bit of doubt ...You can buy a phone recorder at radio shack they are easily installed and will record both parties..the only time you can hear it is when the the tape runs out and the button pops up...but they are illeagal when you don't have one of the two parties consent..I have one but in my case it not illegal to use..I'm the constenting party and the state laws protect me..I have a bill collector that refuses to believe he has the wrong number and keeps on demanding that I have this person to call him..Well I done some detective work online and found out how easily this guy has failed to do his job and just wants to make my life H^ll..He is using caller id spoofing and am about ready to hit this guy with a lawsuit.. I have a hard time remembering because of B-12 def and changing my number is difficult for me I refuse to learn a new phone number besides that I'm afraid he will get my new number and it wil all start over again..

Start checking the mileage on his car..See if you notice an excess amount.Alot of people who found out their spouses was cheating on them don't t pick up on any of the signs that was there. just be more aware of his actions and see if you notice anything

For him to say he didn't want children well it took two to tango..He should of made it vey clear to you before you got pregant that he didn't want kids.

As far as counseling..He doesn't have to go, but you can go see a counselor to help you. Could it be he is jealouse that your going back to school and he see you have the freedom that he doesn't have? I wouldn't walk on eggshells let him know how much you love him and you want to make things work.Is there anyone who can babysit for you so you can really talk to him without the kids there?


I hope everything works out for you..your in my thoughts and prayers.

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