Could he just possibly be feeling the presures of it all. The kids who are very little & on the go I know I have a 2 almost 3 yr old & the finances & all of it with you not working. Could you do something PT to help out? I am not saying its all of it or whatever but it could be a part of it when I went back to work after being a sahm I am now making as much as my dh he appreciates it alot he has never said it but you can tell the burden has been lifted from him. I also agree men are big babies I think thats why they have such a hard time having babies they still need to be babied.

When we had my middle dd which was my husbands first child he had a horrible time coping with being a new dad & it honestly didnt get better tell she was about 3 I cant believe we made it threw those times it wasnt easy I will tel u that but we both wanted things to work out for the kids we both came from divorced families & both agreed we wanted more for our kids. I hope this gives you hope lots of us have ups & downs some last for 1 or 2 yrs but sometimes we get threw & sometimes we dont but either way it wont be the end of the world I promise it wont be.

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mom of 3 greats girls