I would NOT leave him until you talk to an attorney & file for a divorce.If you leave him it can affect your spousal support where the court might not award you any money for spousal support"on grounds desertation ". You will need all the money you can get from him to help you & the kids live a better life without him. I would be too affraid on leaving him for a short period of time he could high tail it to an attorney and file for divorce on grounds of desertation

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