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I charged my Mother, StepFather and Nieces rent when they moved in here. As far as my Mom and stepFather went they were allowed to come and go as they pleased. However, My nieces had crewfews. Sorry but it's still my home and I'll NOT allow anyone to wake me or the kids up with comming in at all hours of the night.I also didnt give them house keys either. Mainly because they can't even keep up with their shoes let alone my house key for them to lose or worse yet leave with some of their questionable *friends* to rob us blind when we weren't home.I didn't allow ANY parties nor was any of their friends allowed to drink in or around my home,*Note why the oldest niece and her boyfriend was kicked out of my home * and there was to be NO DRUGS *note why I had my baby niece arrested and put in juvie at the age of 16* for a year .I looked at it this way, even tho they are my closed family members they couldnt wouldnt walk all over me and my husbands rules and the willingness to open our home to them when they were about to be placed on the streets to live. My home still had rules and they were to respected them or GET OUT.My home wasnt brought to be used as a rental home it's was my home. There's no law that says we must provide our homes with any adult whether it be adult children or adult family members.When I allowed my family to move in with my family it took 2 years to ge tthem out of there, We had drinking, drugs, things stloen and people that I would want to met in dark alleys showing up at our doors.Needless to say, I'm very bitter on this subject and learned a very good lesson to the fact. It's still my home and I'll set the rules. If anyone living here cann't follow them then they are free to get oput and get their own where they can run it as seen fit.
But yes, If any of my adult children were to move back in I'll charge them and yes they would have rules to follow.
Maybe it's because I'm still raising 4 children ages 10 to 4 and last thing I need is for someone to move back and think I'll pay everyhting while they have a ball on my tab.
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