Okay, here's the situation: My husband is deployed to Iraq right now in the green zone. He is only calling me every two weeks and e-mailing about once a week. I know they get two morale calls a week, and have heard from other spouses in the unit that they hear from their SO almost daily. Sometimes there are times when I know he legitmatly can't call or e-mail because of what is going on on his end, but he had the nerve to tell me in an e-mail that all he wants to do most days when he gets off is go to his room and sleep, or watch a movie. I am so frustrated. I don't know what to do. I love him so much, but don't know weather to be mad or worried. If your SO has been deployed how often did they contact you. Oh, let me also add his nephew sent him a project for school and my hubby sent it back with a two page letter and pictures. He has yet to send me pictures or the kids letters. Just an e-mail every now and then to the girls. I don't know how much longer I can take this!! Thanks for letting me vent. AHHHHHHHHHHH!!! I needed a good scream. Also, what do I tell my kids when they ask why dad isn't calling or e-mailing or writing? Any advice is appreciated, but no flaming please I can't take it right now.