I had my oldest a month shy of my 18th b-day. Met my dh 2 years later. Dd's bio dad, let's just say we won't go there
. Once Dh and I had dated a few times, I introduced him to my dd. She was his "test", if she liked him then all was good, had she not, well then bye-bye..lol
Dh and I have been together 14 years, married 13. Had ds at 22 and my youngest dd at 27. Dh got the big "V" shortly after dd was born because the drs. said my body couldn't take another preg.