Do your son and husband have a special Asperger bond? Can your husband talk with him and understand more of the frustrations? Has your husband ever taken meds? How had your husband's life been affected by Aspergers? Can/does he focus on a task? I once heard a ADHD PhD lecture on ADHD. He said that he had learned some control but he drove his wife crazy because he would do things like take out the trash- he would take 2 barrels to the curb and totally not see the other 2. He KNEW he was frustrating as hell to live with. Keep your chin up.

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Lyn Clarke