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Originally Posted by jasmom Aww honey! If it was a contest, you'd lose though.  I have been married almost 14 years and it's like that most of the time. I'm used to it and when he does do something, it is especially surprising. |
That's not really fair to say though. The background is he tells me EVERY YEAR he is going to go all out and suprise me...and every year, he "forgets" to do anything. I don't think V-day is a big deal at all...what I do think is a big deal is being set up with promises and then nothing. When we were dating, my now husband would suprise me with roses all the time. He would take me on long weekends and do all kinds of romantic things for me. Now that we're married with a child, I am lucky to get a kiss goodbye when he goes to work...and even that, I have to remind him!