Originally Posted by CaddyLisa

Thanks for giving me your view from the other side...I do appreciate it...I know that all kids are different and it's not really fair for me to lump them all into one category according to gender...She is just very difficult and has been since she was born...I make every attempt for us to be close because I'm VERY close to my mother...She's my best friend and we do alot of things together...I keep hoping that my daughter and I will have the same type of relationship...I try to get her to go shopping with me (my favorite past time!) and she doesn't want to go...She only likes to go if we are shopping for her and only go to her stores...I'm not allowed to look at anything...LOL...It's just very frustrating...I love her just as much as I do my sons and I would never make the comment I made in my earlier post to her...I know it would hurt her feelings and I would never want to do that to her...She's a good girl...A good student who is shy and never gives me any trouble...I need to count my blessings...If she's moody, then I guess that's the least of my problems...I have to be thankful that she's not boy crazy or drinking or doing drugs...Thanks again for putting things into perspective for me! ~Lisa