I've heard good things about the online dating sites... Not sure specifically which ones are better than others.

As Kelliiiii said, don't lose faith in all MEN. The right one is still out there. You just haven't found him yet! When you least expect it, he'll be there. That seems to be the story that I hear a lot from my friends who have found a love into their 40's.

It is good that you have the attitude of not needing a man. That is why you saw the true colors of this man. Stay strong!