A good friend told me to sit down and have one really good cry to relieve the stress before the wedding. I did that about a week before the big day and it honestly made me feel better. I also had a massage about six hours before the ceremony. The therapist asked me what I had planned for the day and when I told her I was getting married that afternoon, she worked on me for another 30 minutes at no charge. Highly recommend it! BTW, congratulations to you and hubby to be & good luck on the move!