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Originally Posted by nts560 Actually, I disagree. My mom verbally invited a bunch of people to come to my wedding after dinner (so we wouldn't have to pay for them) and it just made my wedding alot more fun. I always wanted a huge wedding, but it just would have been way to expensive to formally invite as much as I really wanted. The "walk-ins", as we still call them 11 years later, really added some flavor to the party. (They were mainly the young, single crowd)
P.S. My sister who is getting married this year is totally against this "walk-in" idea, so to each his own. |
I don't think that would be allowed in some places either, so be careful about trying it.
My MOm and I got ito huge fights over seating and who was invited and she said that she got to invite since she was paying.

Her and my MIL wouldn't let me pick the dresses and they both looked horrible, 2 people in my wedding party had flat tires, there was a hurricane and we were having a garden wedding, and the list goes on.
Everyone has things that go wrong and that we wished we did differently. Like someone said, you'll get through it, we all did. And I LOVE the massage idea!