Originally Posted by lynclarke

Invite her and her g-kid for the weekend. See if your personalities mesh. You may find out that the kid wakes up screaming every night or g-ma is a closet drinker. Go into the weekend with the notion- we are both here to figure out if this could work. Take time over the weekend to lay down the ground rules. Have a family meeting at the end of the weekend and see what the kids think. Every one gets a vote.