DH and me can go out at any time with anyone for lunch/dinner etc..heck he is always off somewhere fixing something for one of the girls that work here..or they are out with one of the boys and I am home..neither one of us have a thing to worry about, plus it helps we don't give a rats behind what someone might think about our life, uhh..until they are paying my bills and buying my groceries they can just slink off somewhere...the best friend I have ever had was a ex of mine and we hung out ll the time, we went to the grocery store toghether everywhere..he stayed with us..David had no issues with it at all..most people would have been screaming and ranting insanely at just the THOUGHT of that...but we are very secure and no we have no issues in the trust dept.
I know when some of the workers come here they were like you leave the house with your husband home with us??? I had never thought about it..but that is the reasoning behind having inhome help isn't it???? Come to find out most of the houses they have worked in the woman would not leave unless her dh went with her..whatever...it never dawned on me...and I told them so...the last thing DH and me want is a affair..we don't have time to take care of what we got, how in the world could we squeeze in more people..roflmao

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"Cast upon this globe without physical strength or innate ideas, incapable in himself of obeying fundamental laws of this nature which call him to the supreme place in the universe, it is only in the heart of society that man can attain the pre-eminent position which is his natural destiny. Without the aide of civilization he would be one of the feeblest and least intelligent of animals.."
Jean-Marc-Gaspard Itard