Thanks everyone. Everyone has given great advice. I do think I will let her handle it.

She is very involved at school and she gets asked by the teachers to participate in alot of activities. She is so well liked by everyone except this one girl. I really do think jealousy is a factor here. I know when they were friends.. the friends parents was always saying how they wish "their daughter" would be more like my daughter. My daughter is very grounded.

Unfortuanately they cannot distance themselves....they are in the same clubs, soccer teams and classes.

I hate all of the middle school drama. I'm such a non tolerant(sp?) person when it comes to these things.

Thanks again!