After 31 years of marriage dh *knows* that would be a loaded a question and would weasel outta an answer ;-)
I used to be morbidly obese and he would always weasel outta an answer. The closest he came to answering was *I think your back must hurt*.
I would never ask that question now that I have lost an extraordinary amt. of weight cuz I now have probs keeping weight on.
I wish DH woulda told me when I was so heavy that I *was* fat in his eyes, I think it woulda spurned me to getting to a healthier weight sooner.
MZ