It's hard because people DO judge you by what you wear and what you look like! Most are not thinking that you don't get a break or even time to get your hair cut, or can afford clothes. We live in a materialistic society that doesn't place value on the inside or what we do with our lives or for others. I'm sure there are Moms out there that do what I do and still manage to look wonderful....it's just not happening here! I'd love to have a reason or the opportunity to dress nicer!