DH would be just fine if I went first.....he knows the basics. When he retired from the Army last year, we had our wills re-done.....the attorney covered everything From if DH went first, or if I went first, if we went at the same time, if DS was under 18, over 18 or over 25. It was a load off my mind.....especially since our old will had DS going to DH's brother and SIL......but they told us after DS was diagnosed with autism that they didn't want him and the responsibility. So I now know that DS would go to DH's cousin (who is more like his sister) which is a perfect match....she has a DD that is only 6 months younger then DS and they are very close.....so it all worked out in the end.

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