I'm currently going through chemo, so I can give you a first hand account of what I need. LOL

I agree with not saying "Let me know if you need anything". Make meals-- just show up and deliver. Offer to take the kids, or better yet, show up and take them. Clean her house, or hire someone to do it. Offer to take her to chemo-- she'll need rides. Make a gift basket filled with chapstick, hand lotion, socks, note cards, etc.

And most of all, pray for her. She'll need it.

Holly

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