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Originally Posted by ohhgodd  itscc:
how are things going so far this week for you? It sounds as things are looking a little brighter (or at least clearer).
Will you all be getting the stimulus payment? I hope so, that will be something very useful for you right now, and just might be a big thing to help you out of the situation you are in.
Thinking of you! |
Ohhgodd~ Thank you for thinking about me we have gotten some good news and are feeling less stressed. DH is having surgery still, the hospital is a non profit and will care for him no matter what we had to apply for State and Local Hospitalization and Medicaid for him and their Charity care program. Spoke to an attorney who is going to talk to the company on our behalf about everything including the fact they have yet to pay DH for the days he worked prior to going out on disability or his sick pay or vacation pay at no cost to us.
Yes we will get the stimulus payment should be here today will check bank account shortly, not sure what to do with it, we could pay COBRA insurance on him only with it for May or we could pay off one credit card or use it to pay our lot rent a month in advance or use it to get flooring to help with the sale of the home, so many ideas not sure what to do right now. Any suggestions from anyone?
My mother has said when one of the CD's from Dads money matures next month she will try to get the money and not roll it over and give it to us to pay off our car, it all depends on if she can convince her "keeper" and the POA on her account to take her to the bank and give us the money.
I am really stressed because there is this troll who is attacking me on Myspace calling me a whiny beggar and criticizing me for spending money back in August 2007 while on vacation in Myrtle Beach
that I could be using now for Stefans meds etc. that was what 8 months ago and that was money I earned form surveys and clicking RP's and they keep saying I harassed someone about something I knew nothing about and I have no clue what its about unless it involves my one son from 2 yrs ago and that is so over and done with. I just cant believe cruel people can be to others and telling me I don't deserve any compassion.
I am just glad I have MyCoupons family to vent to and even if we dont all agree we dont flame and attack each other we have compassion for each other.
Also DH had a 401K he is vested 100% in his and 80% in the companies portion considering our situation now would we be better off rolling it into a IRA or using it to pay off some debt, I know we will have to pay a penalty at tax time, but since DH has no income for at least 3 months our taxable income will be low so the penalty should be minimal. He wont be getting much about $900 and thats with 4 yrs of working there he lost a lot of value with the sotkc market fluctuations. What do you all suggest we do?
And DH has a lead on a job after he is released to work, wont say where right now but its one of my favorite places to buy groceries and the insurance benefits are awesome and half what he was paying with the complexes company.
So yes there is light at the end of the tunnel I have regained faith, but I still need someone to help me with physical labor type jobs around the house, I am going to paint my deck and I can sit in a chair and do that easily over a few days time, but the laundry room floor is a biggie I need a big strong person to move my washer, dryer and freezer and pull up the bad stuff replace it and put down new flooring and Hearts and hammers could do it but I have to sign a contract that I wont sell my home for two years and thats why were doing the work to sell.
Thanks everyone for your prayers, pms' Raok's etc they mean more than you know