I am so sad for you all that don't have a BFF. I am happily married to DH, for 19 years, but BFF (alright Kellyboysmom) and I have gone through heaven and hell together for the last 24 years--since we were 14. We are 38 and 39 respectively-I am the younger chick! haha. We have had cross words, but the beauty of it as that we respect each other enough to know that those words are just constructive criticism, and are meant with the best intentions. If we get together once a week, that's great. If we can only make it once a month, that's fine too. What is so cool, is that my DH and her DH met us all together before we all were married and get along so well---and our oldest kids were born two weeks apart and have the best friends forever since birth-gotta love that!