I let them tell me want they expect of my ds and then i tell them my rules.Any time durung the year they hand me any thing i just said we all ready talk about this and want i expect for you, mY rules is if he is having a problem i do not want to hear about it a week from now call me the same day,after that i do not to hear about .If he not doing his work give him an f i quilt going out there i put that all on him he is in the 10 grade.I do no task about want he needs to do or grades.I just put it all on him only if the teacher do something really way at the way do i go ou there.