Originally Posted by mailady

As a mom of a 16 yr old, I say no way would I think it is ok. I'm sure she sees and hears repugnant behavior in her audience. Which may become normal in her eyes. Then I'm sure somewhere along the line she will hear how to make a few more bucks. This experience has to harden a person of this age in a way that I think is not healthy. I don't know where this girl is or what she looks like to be making $450 + for 30 minutes work in her undies. Sounds a little exaggerated to me- though I'm not saying OP is exaggerating. As for lying to her parents, I'm also not for that. I think if she is mature enough to dance in front of men in her underwear, she should be mature enough to face her parents. Can you imagine how they will feel when hearing about this through another source? I think it changes a person's character to lie to people about who you are/what you do especially pertaining to this scenario and this age . I always tell my kids I want to know who they are, warts and all. They know I will not approve of everything they do, and as they grow older they will make decisions that I may not approve of, but that I will love them and try to find a common ground.