She has 4 kids, the oldest who is joining the military. I have a feeling they will make this work. I raised an ADHD kid. Talk about being busy!!! lol I wonder if you would feel this way if this was a man? Would that be ok if the wife was home with the child? Don't you think they may have some extra help to help with all the little stuff we "normal" moms have to do? Cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, etc... that would leave time for quality time. Large families tend to help each other and with the three older siblings at home that child will get lots of love. And she seems like one tough woman. I couldn't do it but I can't say she can't!