I said it is not about the money.
When my ex knew he was close to dying he was asking for our daughter. She was the only one he would let hold his hand. He died holding his daughters hand.
He would even steal for people.It was 15 and more years ago now he did that. He only did it a few times. I didn't want to tell that. But it will make you understand better. He did not have many friends. People thought he was weird. The only friends he had used him.
I did everything for him when we were married. I was just tired of being afraid. He had a bad temper. He would get mad at someone else take it out on me. He was always breaking things.
He got mad at me cause our daughter was born by c-section and he went home and destroyed all our wedding pictures cause he did not get to see her born the natural way.
My current husband has even joked that I don't get mad and I have never cussed in my life.
Some women just can not accept the fact that thier husbands have kids from another woman. Even though it was before he knew them. There are women out there who just are not very nice to their step kids. Who don't and will never accept them.
All I wanted to do was vent cause of how my kids were treated by my exes wife and mother in law. At the funeral . They were told at the funeral they were not getting a dime or anything by the mother in law.
His kids should have been mentioned at the funeral along with his friends and co workers.