Originally Posted by susiecat

When my father died, I didn't get anything either. I was 20. He was married to his 3rd wife at the time (my Mom was his 2nd).

There was some things I wanted of his.. well just one thing.. a cabinet that belonged to his parents, he got when they died. I didn't get it. I didn't even ask for it. I let it go.

Your kids will be ok. It's just stuff. If he was still alive now, they wouldn't have the truck or money or whatever it is they wanted.

Don't let greed cover up grief.