I think your offer was generous and to the point.

What I have seen with some couples is, especially is they have been living together for a while (or long time) and have already established their "household", these couples will register with a Travel Agency. That way, instead of directing people who ask "where are you registered" to places like Macy's, Dillards, LNT or BBB, just direct them to the Travel Agency and they can "buy" their wedding gift there (paying whatever they would normally spend on a "normal" wedding gift towards the honeymoon that is registered.) They can also still register at one of the "regular" registries for those who can't quite see going the Travel Agency route.

But in any case, You are being quite generous. I do see a "Bridezilla" show in the making here though.....buck up and prepare for a bumpy ride.

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