One more thing just crossed my mind and I wanted to share. I hope I am not talking out of place..

Don't let Satan get in the way by making this teenager a thorn in your side when they come early. Don't let him take away the blessings that you might possibly be doing for this child.. you have no clue what your influence may be doing.
Satan has a way of putting these kinds of thoughts in our head (I know you know this) in order to get in the way of what good things God has planned, especially when it comes to our youth.