I don't have that problem thankfully. I know women who do have the same issue and they use sex as a "reward" for their hubby 's doing stuff. Personally, I think that's horrid. Sex shouldn't be a negotiation tool but that's my opinion obviously. I think you need to make your expectations clear. If you both work outside the home, it should be split equally. I work in the home. Since my schedule is more flexible than his and I am home, I tend to do more housework tasks because I'm here. I usually cook (which I don't mind) but he cleans up. He cooks breakfast on the weekends and he cleans up too.

You just have to let him know your expectations and how you are feeling. He probably thinks he IS doing is share (because men can be blind that way sometimes as can women)

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