how scary for you all. I wonder if your friend isnt somewhat empathic (sp?) considering she was able to feel what he is feeling. Since your husband wont allow paranormal group to come maybe you can contact one and ask them for directions in safely helping the man to cross over. Sounds like he is connected to the grounds instead of the house, since you said nobody died in the house. I would find out who the original owners were howver, if the house is only 35 yrs old and the old man has been around since the middle 70's doesnt sound like it would be someone who owned the house unless of course they were old when they owned the house.

steph

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