"when you are an elementary teacher... I know you have a life outside of school, but, as an adult and a REAL role model (versus sports figures and the like)...act responsibly!" I take offense to that! I was 21 when I got pregnant with my son and not married... GUESS WHAT?? I was on the pill, I was taking precautions, things happen. I was also with his father for 5 years before that and another 11 after that. We built a life together, or at least tried to. DOes that make me any less of a person because I did not marry him?? No not at all...
I think it is really sad that people judge others and have not walked in their shoes. Just because she is 35, pregnant and not married does NOT make her a bad role model! Who knows the circumstances behind it all...