Originally Posted by ohhgodd

Yes, but I raised him. He says that I am the only one he considers "mom". His mom has had nothing to do with either of the boys since he was 12 or 13 and before that, there was much abuse (as to why we got custody). I sign my name "Kathy" simply because that is what they both call me. But I am, and always will, consider myself his mom. I do not love them any less than if I had given birth to them.