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Originally Posted by ohhgodd  YOu know what? Forget this. I did nothing to these boys, and resent you even INSINSINUATING that I might have!
The only sin I ever did to them was taking them in as my own, and giving them a mother when their own mother did nothing but beat the hell out of them and let them be abused by every tom, dick and harry she had moving into her home.
I resent this. If you know enough about my history to even think to ask this, then you KNOW enough about my history to KNOW what I have been through with these two very lost, uncaring individuals.. (Who are a product of their mother). I could tell you stories that would make your toes curl.
My only wish was that they would learn to care about others, and seeing that they don't makes me VERY VERY SAD...I will always keep hoping that one day they will care for another human being and give back some of the love that has been given to them. I am only hurt because I know there are parts that can't be touched in them.. not even the most caring soul can change severe abuse that a child goes through during their early childhood years.
NUFF SAID. This whole point is MOOT and I have had enough of the freaking insinuations..
I will take what you said, though, and see it for what it is. You are very right that I need to just back off away if they are not receptive. It is just so hard to not keep pushing when you just keep hoping....
scashman, I like the calendar idea too.... |
WOW ! ! !
I made no insinuations. You wrote that your stepsons won't come over or call you and even ignore your birthday along with the other holidays. I wrote that if I were you, I'd ask myself the reason why your stepsons avoid you but hey, I'm glad you cleared that up. Your response made it crystal clear that nobody would want to avoid someone as reasonable as yourself. Yeah, it's a mystery why your children want to stay away from someone as charming as you. ROFL!
