I'm sorry this isn't working out the way that you would like and I'm sorry that your feelings have been hurt. I agree with the others though, that it's best to try to let it go.....weddings do tend to be mostly the work and the wishes of the bride. I don't really think you and your sister can decide who should be in the wedding.

Is the entire bridal party going to be made up of children with the neices and nephews? Maybe they are thinking to keep it a children's bridal party for some odd reason...and that's why an adult sister of the groom doesn't really "fit".

cj/

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