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Old 11-24-2008, 01:16 PM
browneyes106 browneyes106 is offline
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Originally Posted by dnj51 View Post
I understand that you feel left out. But you need to let it go. Be glad that she has family members that are able to help them save a LOT of money by doing the Cake and photography.

All you can do is offer your help, if you make too big of a deal you may alienate your brother. Just go to the wedding and enjoy!
My aunt owned a catering business for 15 years and she has many skills. She offered to do desserts and my brother basically blew her off. I just don't think it is fair that my relatives have offered help and been refused but my brother's gf's relatives can have involvement.