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I do understand that it is their wedding but still I feel she needs to respect his blood family too
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It doesn't matter what
you feel. This is their wedding. If your brother is happy with the arrangements that's all that matters.
I'm still not sure why you think you have the right to feel slighted about not being invited to be in someone else's wedding. You and your sister decided that you should be in this wedding. The bride and groom obviously had other plans.
I'm also curious about something. The bride's oldest children are 20 and 19. It occurs to me that the bride and groom are quite a bit older than you. Are you even close to your brother?
This is obviously a non-traditional wedding party. The bride wants to include her children (kudos to her as some brides look upon their kids as a distraction from themselves) and her kids need appropriate escorts. More than likely, being kids, they'd prefer escorts they're comfortable with. That's where the cousins come in.
Honestly? Your posts reek of self-entitlement. I really don't understand your point of view on this issue as the whole thing has nothing to do with you.