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Originally Posted by sadarl  .... Don't talk to your brother about it, it's going to get back to the wife and she'll remember it forever. No one deserves this sort of black cloud hanging over their big day. It WILL affect all future dealings with them, I promise. |
This is an excellent point. I'm rethinking my advice to talk to your brother about any of this. It would likely backfire just like sadari anticipates.
Just remember that you have a great response ready for everyone who wants to insert themselves when it's *your* turn to plan a (your) wedding - "Thank you, but I'm handling all of the planning. I'm sure you understand!"
Good luck, OP! Your sister-in-law-to-be has likely hurt more feelings than yours on this one, but let it go. Better for the bride to do it her way, than for you to be known as the one who stepped on the bride's foot...