opal first off hon Stacey is a very dear and special friend to me. Secondly asking a kindergarten para to stay later, and she would pay her out of her pocket is not ethical at all. Its wrong I said this because for some reasons. Mrs. Q does not pay Stacey's salary. Secondly she cannot her money cash no less on the side to do this job. Also like I stated before there are 8 other para's and someone is bound to get upset and say how come Stacey is getting paid extra, then we all deserve more money. The right thing for my friend to have done was address the issue right there and then. Long story short, when Stacey came into work today she explained her views and feelings to Mrs. Q and stated that she did not feel right taking cash from her. Also if any extra work was needed it would have to get Dr.C our principal first and foremost. Mrs Q. understood and said she was not upset and asked that Stacey not be upset either. So in the end everything worked out for the best... Peace .Catherine

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in memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny who is now an angel in heaven