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Old 11-27-2008, 03:21 AM
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Originally Posted by ILUVLUCY420 View Post
opal first off hon Stacey is a very dear and special friend to me. Secondly asking a kindergarten para to stay later, and she would pay her out of her pocket is not ethical at all. Its wrong I said this because for some reasons. Mrs. Q does not pay Stacey's salary. Secondly she cannot her money cash no less on the side to do this job. Also like I stated before there are 8 other para's and someone is bound to get upset and say how come Stacey is getting paid extra, then we all deserve more money. The right thing for my friend to have done was address the issue right there and then.
I agree that your friend should have addressed the issue right there and then. I don't agree that Mrs. Q did anything unethical. She wanted to do a good job, requested help and offered to pay for it out of her own pocket. I think that makes her a great and unusually conciencious worker. There's not many people like her. She's a dream employee!

I understand that someone might get upset that Stacey gets extra hours and makes more money than they do but she would be getting paid extra for doing extra work. It doesn't mean that you all automatically deserve more money just because Stacy lucked out and got a side job! The other eight paras might be jealous and cause problems so I understand that it might be a bad idea to do it but there's nothing unethical about Mrs. Q's offer to Stacy. You and the other paras might not LIKE it because it's not to your financial advantage but there's nothing morally or ethically wrong with Mrs. Q's request . Do you know what unethical means?